This is both the final of my three love letters and the final Living God blog. In the last couple of weeks I have written to London and the Church of England but I wanted to save the Cathedral until last. Thank you for following this blog. In the future I may realise that I have other things to say and so will have to reinvent a blog at some time, but until then, bless you.
Dear Southwark Cathedral
I really don’t know how to begin this letter. I have been putting off writing it because I know that it will only upset me as I begin to put into words what I feel, and I suspect, I hope, that you will feel similar things about me. After all we have been together a long time and experienced so many different things over these years. It has been wonderful, but now it’s time to part ways.
I don’t want you blaming yourself, it’s nothing that you have done. It’s me. I have got older and you deserve someone younger, someone with new, fresh ideas, someone who can take you places where you haven’t yet been . You are just so full of energy, forever young, you keep your looks, you are as beautiful as ever. When we met I was a lot slimmer, I had more hair, I was a good deal younger. But I fell in love with you as soon as I saw you – I think you knew that. Don’t get me wrong, I’d seen others like you before, beautiful churches, historic places, but there was something about you that struck me from the first encounter as very special.
The first time I saw you was from a train. I was heading from Greenwich, where I was staying with a friend, to Charing Cross. I just happened to look out of the window and there you were. You seemed close enough to touch, nestled strangely alongside the railway viaduct. Then as quickly as I’d seen you, you were gone. But a few years later I got off the train and came in. Two friends were being ordained, two women, in the first batch of priests. One was in the afternoon, the other in the evening. You’d been hard at work all day, but your spirit never flagged, your welcome never lessened. And that phrase from the Old Testament, from Jacob’s dream, came to my mind then and has stayed with me since.
‘This is none other than the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven.’ (Genesis 28.7)
So, it was amazing when I could move down to be with you, when I could move in with you, when I could get to know you so much better, when we could spend so much time together. It’s 28 years since I came down, since I first stood at one of your altars, 24 years since I was given my own stall in your choir, 12 years since I was wedded to you as Dean. At each stage I have loved you more.
We’ve had some good times. Can you remember when we celebrated the anniversary of the Great Fire of Southwark in 2012? I had a great idea to have fireworks from your tower – and managed to block your drains with the debris. Sorry, but you did look spectacular even if the rain did overflow into the nave afterwards! What about when the bells were taken out and then brought back? Gleaming, they sat in a river of wool in the nave and then they were hauled back into the tower to ring again. Do your remember the flower festival when they dressed you in blossom and Sue Pollard joined us? Can you remember when Doorkins arrived and found as generous a welcome as I had done, and then stayed and made her home with us. And then Hodge, finding his vantage point, on the pulpit, in anyone’s chair, from where he can survey the scene.
But you also bear scars. That night, that warm early summer evening in June 2017 when terrorists struck at the people enjoying life in your shadows, killed around your walls. You were broken into, the doors blown open, you still wear the scars of the night as we all do. You kept the marks like marks of the passion. ‘These wounds I received in the house of my friends’ we said – and you keep faith with it, even bearing on your outside walls the face of local hero of that night, Wayne Marques.
I shall never forget that day when we had to lock the doors and leave you. We had been told to lockdown, lock you down. I was the last person in with the verger and I cried as I said goodbye – when would I see you again? You were sealed like a tomb, you, so full of life. But you stayed resilient and soon people from around the world began to recognise you, online, streamed, spreading the word, being yourself for an even wider audience, so that even more people would say, ‘Southwark Cathedral, you are so beautiful, so life giving’.
And The Queen, standing there at the west end, here to visit you, not for the first time but for what would be her last. She walked all round you, admiring your glass, meeting more of your friends, smiling and relaxed in such a lovely, holy place. It’s that holiness that is so special. Forget fireworks and flowers, forget cats, however cute, forget trains and river, kings and queens, it’s that holiness, that sense that you are a thin, touching place, that as T S Eliot wrote of another special place, makes everyone who enters realise
You are here to kneel
Where prayer has been valid.
We kneel and stand and sit and worship the God who incarnates the divine in place and time, in this place at this time, in our place, in our time. Somehow you hold that mystery at the heart of this great city of London, showing a good face of the Church of England, the face we wish others to see.
I can’t bear the thought of leaving you, but I have to go. Another will come and love you, I hope, but in my heart you will always have a place. I probably won’t be able to say goodbye properly but as you see me walk away hold me as you have already held me all these years and held so many who have found in you a place in which to encounter the Living God.
With love
Andrew
Living God, your life gives life to the world; live in us, live in me, may our lives reflect your life. Amen.
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