I’ve had the privilege to go to a great many memorial services during my years at Southwark Cathedral. Some have been after tragic circumstances – the Bali bombings, the Sri Lankan tsunami, as well as our own terrorist incident, of course. Others have been for notable people in their own field, property developers, traders in one commodity or another. Some have had a significant role in politics, or the City. Others have been more on the celebrity end of life, people like John Mortimer of ‘Rumple’ fame. None, though, has quite achieved the ‘A’ list, glamour level that the memorial event we held in the Cathedral last Thursday rose to.
The event, it was more of a sparkling showcase rather than a service, was in celebration of Dame Vivienne Westwood. The guest list was a roll call of the rich, fabulous and famous. I won’t name drop them all, though it was a joy to meet and chat to Jeff Banks, who is an old ‘Dustonian’, a former student at St Dunstan’s College in the diocese, and is a Catford boy with wonderful tales to tell of growing up there. But walking past me were Victoria Beckham, the enigmatic Anna Wintour with her trademark dark glasses, Will Young, who I did catch a word with, and of course the amazing Helena Bonham Carter. To be perfectly honest I didn’t know who most of the people were. I don’t say that with any false arrogance; it’s a world I just have no understanding or knowledge of. Not being a reader of the ‘Mail Online’ I just don’t know who modern day celebrities are.
The ticket that even I had received with which to gain admittance, had a quote from Dame Vivienne on it. It said, ‘When in doubt dress up!’. Looking down from the pulpit, where I was dressed in a simple red piped cassock, tailored by Watts & Co, London, and a cincture in stylish purple watered silk from the ecclesiastical couturiers, Barbiconi in Rome, that people had taken that as permission to come in their very best. Many of them were obviously wearing ‘Westwood’ creations, there was a good deal of tartan, some distinctive fastenings and something slightly anarchic. Showing off what Dame Vivienne had created was a bit like the scene that we read of in the Acts of the Apostles. The wonderful Dorcas had died
All the widows stood beside him, weeping and showing tunics and other clothing that Dorcas had made while she was with them. (Acts 9.39)
Peter raises Dorcas, otherwise known as Tabitha, back to life. Acts tells us that she was ‘devoted to good works and acts of charity’ and was obviously the seamstress, tailor, maker of garments in the community. What we heard about in this memorial service was not so much about the clothes that Dame Vivienne made, though we did hear a lot about that but more about her passions for political change, for equality, justice, for care of the environment, for care of creation, her anti-capitalist, pro-democracy beliefs. In a lovely video in which she spoke to us about growing up in Derbyshire she talked of those early days of punk and anarchy, with Malcolm McLaren, and how out of that had grown this passion to challenge and change the staus quo.
As I commented in my welcome, given the famous ‘God save the Queen’ T-Shirt she created with the image of Her Late Majesty on it, it was more than ironic that the King and the Queen Consort were represented at the event and, of course, that she ended up as a dame. We could see it as being absorbed by the establishment or we could also see it as the manner that in subtle ways the establishment also begins to change when you provide with new and different clothes, if what Erasmus said ‘“vestis virum facit”, ‘clothes make the man’, is true.
Of course, we never need an excuse to dress up in church – we’re renowned for it. Only the best is good enough for God, the silks and the damasks, the gold and the silver, the touch of glamour that can sparkle like the touch of heaven. But in a deeply counter-cultural way we dress up not just so that we can party in a holy kind of way but so that we can lose ourselves in the vestments, so we can draw less attention to ourselves, not more, so that I am less me, not more. But those who dress us, people like Dame Vivienne, whether in those early rebellious days with Malcolm McLaren or in later years as she dressed the famous and the glamourous, help us to emerge from the ordinary and to be adorned for life, to give us the confidence to be who we really are, to be fully the person we want to be.
The poet George Herbert wrote this poem entitled, ‘Aaron’.
Holiness on the head,
Light and perfections on the breast,
Harmonious bells below, raising the dead
To lead them unto life and rest:
Thus are true Aarons drest.
Profaneness in my head,
Defects and darkness in my breast,
A noise of passions ringing me for dead
Unto a place where is no rest:
Poor priest, thus am I drest.
Only another head
I have, another heart and breast,
Another music, making live, not dead,
Without whom I could have no rest:
In him I am well drest.
Christ is my only head,
My alone-only heart and breast,
My only music, striking me ev’n dead,
That to the old man I may rest,
And be in him new-drest.
So, holy in my head,
Perfect and light in my dear breast,
My doctrine tun’d by Christ (who is not dead,
But lives in me while I do rest),
Come people; Aaron’s drest.
‘In him I am well drest’. That line speaks to me as I contemplate being ‘clothed in Christ’ a phrase we use in the Sacrament of Baptism which echoes words of Paul in Colossians 3. We put on Christ, in him we are well dressed.
The crowd who had packed the cathedral dispersed, glad to have been there, grateful to Dame Vivienne for so much. I took off my cassock to reveal a clerical shirt from J Wippell & Co Ltd, teamed up with a black suit from Marks & Spencer. I’m comfortable in these clothes. It’s good to get dressed up and great if at the end of it you can look at your most beautiful and glamourous. But the clothes that really make the difference are ‘compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience’ (Colossians 3.12) and they will never go out of fashion, and Dame Vivienne knew that too.
Loving God, clothe me with your self that I may be who you created me to be. Amen.
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